Its been a struggle to write this. Looking back at the people I’ve probably hurt when I was christian. I accepted people who were gay back then, but I didn’t think it was right. I thought the only way for people to find true love was for them to be straight. But I’ve thought wrong before and now, I’ve changed my mind.
It’s nice to be around my gay guy friends and know that they don’t have any interest in me sexually. I’ve had too many straight assholes in my life so being around my gay friends is like having a weight lifted off my chest. I feel bad for the way I felt about them back then. The only thing we really know about love is our own experiences. And who am I to say that people of the same gender can’t love each other just because I haven’t experienced it myself? And more importantly —how is it harmful?
We’re talking about two people trying to get together. Trying to take care of each other’s needs. Trying to help build each other up, so tell me, how is a couple that is just trying to be nice to each other some kind of veil disgusting thing that will end the world as we know it?
I’ve been to a gay bar. It was a place where people were smiling, I noticed a gay couple that claimed that had been together for years smiling ear to ear, which is something straight marriages don’t always have. I’m not saying that all gay relationships are perfect. However, I’m tired of people treating a straight relationship as the “magic pill,” that’s going to bring us the ultimate happiness in life. I’ve met enough shitty guys and I’m sure guys have met plenty of shitty girls that weren’t worth investing in. And maybe, just maybe, not everyone likes to have actual straight sex.
Gasp! Heathens don’t always like sex?
Yeah, the idea of sex being a gift is really just an opinion. Some people are pretty much asexual and others have been traumatized in way that sex is hard for them to want. While others are just flat out disgusted by gentails of the opposite sex. Just get over it. I’m tired of people getting up on their high horse thinking they’re all that compared to everybody else. If someone wants to be gay just let them be gay. And in the name of nothing just stop fucking demonizing people. We still have people protesting about how much they hate the LGBTQ community. Seriously? The world has enough problems as it is, with that many people we could build a neighborhood. But no, they’d rather spend all their time telling people how much they hate people. We all live on the same planet, we all have struggles although sometimes we like to think ours are the worst of the worst. We were all born and at some point we shall all die.
We all in this boat together, so don’t be rocking it because you want all to live under a book that is literally so outdated we’re missing pieces of it.